Genesis 2:18
Later, the LORD God said, “It is not good for man to be alone. I will make for him a companion corresponding to him.”
‘Later…’ – that is, when the right time came – ‘… the LORD God said, “… I will make for him a companion…”’, for before that Adam went around exploring the created world, “but there was not found for the man any companion…” [v. 20].
This indicates that God is involved in creating opportunities concerning a person’s life-companion; at the right and special time God ‘… brought her to the man…’ [v. 22]. Yet, such indication is complemented by the freedom God has given us; for instance, “If they decide it’s a good idea in their opinion to get married…, let them get married…” [Num 36:6].
And God through his wisdom knows whom I will choose by my free-will to marry; I believe that he will bring her to me (and me to her), whereas the rest are mysteries and wonders which I have to discover, through pleasant or unpleasant experiences, together with that special-someone.
While we are permitted the freedom to choose a life companion on our own initiatives, before (and after) making that decision she and I must go (and grow) through the test of being willing to take up various responsibilities, mutually. Hence, I must now keep walking so close to God, who has designed the routes of my life, that I learn to exercise my free-will wisely.
In conclusion, despite being single, available and desperate, I should put my trust in God, living life close to him and taking initiatives to make friends and bond solidly with a few of them. Surely then, through the course of friendship, I will know who the right lady is for me as well as when the right time is for us to court and/or, after examining through courtship whether or not she and I correspond to one another, to decide on marriage.
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